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An Ode to Bullies.

It is easy to be angry, and upset about the behavior of bullies. After all we know that their behavior has terrible outcomes for their victims. But empathy, and compassion for bullies, ought to be part of our approach to the problem of bullying.


Kids do not become bullies without system involvement. Remember without the bystanders, and the silent consent given by folks within their system, the bully would not have the ability to bully at all. In fact, the research is clear that the negative eff

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Can Dirt and Bacteria make you smarter?

"Mycobacterium vaccae is a natural soil bacterium which people likely ingest or breath in when they spend time in nature," saysDorothy Matthews of The Sage Colleges in Troy, New York, who conducted the research with he

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We are on a mission to train as many kids, teens, and adults the skills needed to end bullying now. Verbal Judo is a program that has been used by law enforcement for over 26 years--it trains officers in tactical communication skills so they are able to de-escalate situations using words before they become physical.

We have broken the program down to present to kids in a way that is developmentally appropriate, combined it with anger management, and education with the most current anti bullying
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NEWSLETTER

JULY 2010

Why Do More Alcohol Outlets Lead to Greater Alcohol Problems?

It is very important for state and local communities to retain control over the number of alcohol outlets. It does make a difference. Every year there are more studies on this topic. In February, two Indiana
University professors reported on their analysis of crime and outlet density
in Cincinnati. They found that off-premise outlets were responsible for one
in four simple assaults and one in three aggravated

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Homework Challenge

Mercer Island Martial Arts Annual Homework Challenge!

Objective: To motivate students to develop a habit of getting their homework from school done, and to positively reinforce those who choose to pursue academic excellence. Good leaders are always learning, and building their knowledge base. Education is a lifetime pursuit.

HOW TO PARTICIPATE: Parents and their kids can register for the homework challenge by phone, email, or in person. Parents every time your child does his/her homework withou

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Bicycles for Humanity Seattle

Event


Bicycles for Humanity donation booth at the Mercer Island Summer Celebration.



Event Description


Your unused bicycle can help South African children travel miles to school, healthcare workers reach distant villages or the employed get to work or start their own business.
Bicycles for Humanity-Seattle plans to ship 1,000 bicycles to the KwaZulu-Natal
region of South Africa where two wheels can transport villagers from poverty to a better life.



Fair attendees

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Save,at least, one life this year

Save, at Least, One Life


~ This Year ~


The Escape to Safety Card Game



As a part of our upcoming belt test, we are teaching all of our students how to execute a leadership project called The Escape to Safety Card Game



The game, designed by our friend, martial arts teacher Tom Callos, is already responsible for saving the lives of two boys in California.



Our project requires your child to teach at least 3 other people how to use the game to plan and practice an emergency escape route from one’s

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CTC member, friend or ally,



Here is an opportunity to take action as an individual to help prevention efforts, including the norms
surrounding underage drinking that we’re trying to change:



Taco Bell is now serving two types of margarita drinks for the summer in their
restaurants throughout North America. Classic Margarita Fruitista Freeze
is marketed as, “A smooth frozen margarita-flavored drink topped with a fresh
lime wedge.” The franchise restaurants are also selling Strawberry
Margaritas.

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5 Facts that will make you lay off the bottle(d water) – for good.

5 Facts that will make you lay off the bottle(d water) – for good.

Are you a bottled water addict? Admitting you have a problem is the firststep in curing an addiction. It’s time we all take a look at this complicated relationship we have with a completely useless product fueled by manufactured demand. Fortunately, water is free and available to most of us here in the Western World (most of us just take it for granted). Yet, we keep spending our hard-earned money on bottled water. Why?

Th

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With the recent suicide of Phoebe Prince, a 15 year old in Mass. a new awareness of "cyber bullying" and its effects has been examined. Not only are we all concerned about the targets of this kind of bullying, but also how easily virtual bystanders can become part of the problem. I have pasted below a great resource from Family online safety institute--FOSI. (find them at fosi.org).

fosi-parent-tips.pdf

fosi-kids-tips.pdf







The Family


Online Internet Safety Contract*










An agreement

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Today there was an incident which involved the police and resulted in the kids at IMS and Island Park to go into the "lockdown" mode.

When something like this happens the kids come in and immediately talk about it. They are in a sense "traumatized" . Please don't misunderstand me; on a scale of 1-10 this probably wouldn't rate very high. However, in my experience they are affected, and need a little help working through what happened.

For some kids, this incident will roll off their backs. Others
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How to take your training to a new level… Dear Parent and students! We are now accepting applications for the 2010 Demonstration Team! What this means for you is that you and your child will have the opportunity to be part of a small group of dedicated, like minded, motivated students. Demo teams build high levels of confidence because students are taught how to perform in public. There’s an awesome rush that comes from performing for your community and getting accolades! If your family is ac
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Self defense is: practicing kindness. . .

Why are we on an Acts of Kindness Mission? Primarily: We believe kindness is important to our practice of martial arts. It builds peace in the community, empathy in the giver, and teaches the connectedness between each of us. This is imparitive to our understanding of self defense in that: As we are connected, we are no longer OTHER, but in fact, we belong to, and with each other. And this understanding, the understanding of our connectedness with each other, engenders peace vs violence---e
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